{"id":3519,"date":"2014-04-08T13:33:12","date_gmt":"2014-04-08T17:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/?p=3519"},"modified":"2014-04-08T13:33:12","modified_gmt":"2014-04-08T17:33:12","slug":"the-argue-jar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/the-argue-jar\/","title":{"rendered":"The Argue Jar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With my full-time job and my hubby&#8217;s new biz starting, my patience has been strained. Add in a needy pit bull rescue, other family obligations, the kids&#8217; school work, after school classes, and a sputter tic that my darling son has decided sounds best when displayed ten times\/minute, I have little room for additional irritations.<\/p>\n<p>On the positive side:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I am learning to say no<\/li>\n<li>I have greatly reduced my drinking and upped my exercise<\/li>\n<li>I have learned to set boundaries<\/li>\n<li>I have given myself permission to love others but not allow their negativity to affect me<\/li>\n<li>I have learned the importance of defending my personal space<\/li>\n<li>I am realizing that I don&#8217;t have to explain ANYTHING to ANYONE anymore &#8211; not my statements, my kids, my own personal needs<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But perhaps the best thing I&#8217;ve created for peace despite an insane schedule?<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Argue Jar<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Basically, it works like this:<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Me:<\/strong> Stink, I need you to take out the trash now<br \/>\n<strong>Stink:<\/strong> I was hoping to do it after I finished reading Pokemon and the Case of the Runaway Chicken<br \/>\n<strong>Me:<\/strong> Add a dollar to the argue jar<br \/>\n<strong>Stink:<\/strong> But I&#8217;m at a really good part!<br \/>\n<strong>Me:<\/strong> Add another dollar<\/p>\n<p>(Two minutes later)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Me:<\/strong> Pip, it&#8217;s time to get ready for dinner<br \/>\n<strong>Pip:<\/strong> But I want to bike!<br \/>\n<strong>Me:<\/strong> Add a dollar to the argue jar<br \/>\n<strong>Pip:<\/strong> (getting the dollar but shuffling her feet) That&#8217;s totally unfair!<br \/>\n<strong>Me:<\/strong> Add in a quarter for a bad attitude<\/p>\n<p>Last week, I made $11.75:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/argue-jar.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3520\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/argue-jar.jpg\" width=\"280\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>With it, I bought this:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3521\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1.jpg\" width=\"193\" height=\"299\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Because I often have to turn over my entire paycheck to cover boring essentials like food, shelter and clothing, this really made my day! It relaxed me enough to be able to thank the other people in my life who pitch in to make our little household run. This includes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>My hubby. Thanks, sweetie, for your wonderful dinners!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7340.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3522\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7340.jpg\" width=\"283\" height=\"299\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Thanks, kiddos, for genuinely liking each other after all this time. I&#8217;m bracing myself for those tween years when you&#8217;ll realize sharing a room is about as uncool as having your mom hug you in front of class, but for now, I&#8217;ll take it!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7339.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3523\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7339.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>And thank you, crazy Brooklyn, for reminding me that although you still want to eat other dogs when we walk you, you are a complete and total love bug with us. You are teaching me how to be tough and patient as we socialize you. And for that, of course, take our favorite chair. Let us wrap you in pillows. All 85 pounds of you deserve every last bit of comfort.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7345.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3524\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/njcts.org\/tsparents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img_7345.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Some people have meditation. Some people have exercise. I have the argue jar. And I&#8217;m quite grateful.\u00a0Until next time, hug that ticker today! And remember, a kid who tics but has personality beats a non-ticking boring kid any day of the week. 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